I very much want to raise children who are givers. I'm excited that they have reached an age of understanding and awareness. Although I'm not sure of how deeply they understand the idea of poverty and need, I'm clearly not giving them enough credit for what they do know.
This is what they voluntarily removed from their room. By themselves.
I was quite shocked. This was the first year I involved them in toy removal and I really hammered in that there were children who went without and that since they had so much they could afford to share with others. That it would be kind and generous to do so and how good it would feel to give to others. While I folded laundry they set to clearing out. I was very proud of what they did. But I was also a little teary-eyed. The farm? Those books? Didn't my babies want to keep their crocodile? They loved it their first Christmas! But alas, it will go back to babies, which is becoming a familiar phrase around our house now. They freely offer up their things that sit unused.
After they made their donate box I went in with them and we straightened and re-organized. There just might be enough room for big girl beds! One thing I was a little disappointed with was the inability to donate stuffed animals. I freely admit that many that we received go out as soon as they come in, and that the little crappy ones I throw out whenever they are left around, I'm astonished at how attached they seem to be to some of them. Of course the regulars that live in their beds are going no where, but I have half a bin full of ones they don't play with, and that they adamantly chose to keep.
So how long do I honor their wishes?
I hate stuffed animals.
Then while they were busy playing in their room, I peeked into their closet only to be reminded it was full of birthday toys and toys from LAST CHRISTMAS! I think there is even one in their from the Christmas before!
Hi, my name is Mandy and I am the toy nazi.
Jeeze! I now have days until another toy invasion!
Unless the zombie apocalypse hammers down on us Friday, in which case I won't have to wrap all of this OR make my first car payment!
Zombie can't be that bad, right?